Feeling stuck and discouraged in your marriage?
Having on-going hurtful arguments?
Struggling with the same issues over and over?
When you are in a difficult relationship or marriage, it disrupts every aspect of your life including how you feel about yourself. Frustration, confusion and self-doubt can be all consuming and debilitating.
Though at times you may feel hopeless and think nothing is going to change, you want to give it one last-ditch effort before giving up.
Maybe you don’t feel heard, respected, appreciated or loved. Perhaps you have a non-existent sex life. It could be that one of you has had an affair, and you are having difficulty trusting or being trusted again. Maybe you keep fighting about how to parent, or dealing with in-laws, or step-children, or your ex-spouses.
Whatever the cause of disharmony in your relationship, you’re on a roller coaster of emotions, grief, anger, and regrets. You’re emotionally distant with each other and worried that the relationship will end. Perhaps one of you is thinking of moving on.
Regardless of how long you have been struggling in your relationship and how frustrated and hurt you are feeling right now, there is hope with couples therapy.
Any couple who ties the knot can face problems in their marriage. Perhaps problems in the relationship should be considered a “wake up” call to work on your marriage rather than surrendering to divorce.
If you do finally decide to divorce, your work in couples therapy might increase your chance of a successful marriage next time around.
The Benefits of Marriage Counseling
As your couples’ therapist, I will make sure both of your perspectives are heard. We will:
define the problems in your marriage
identify your strengths, weaknesses, and where you are stuck
develop individual goals
determine your goals and needs as a couple
plan how to get your needs met
work on improving communication
move towards achieving a happier relationship
As a result, therapy will help you to feel less stress, and more
appreciated and loved.
Please reach out. You deserve a healthy marriage.
Relationship Counseling for Singles Too
As a relationship therapist, I also provide therapy to singles who have
struggled in relationships. With counseling, you can uncover what is causing your pain and recognize the negative patterns that keep you from having healthy relationships.
If you can relate to the following, counseling is for you:
You don’t understand why relationships are so difficult for you
You are frustrated with repeated painful relationships
You attract people who are not ready for a committed relationship
You don’t get your needs met for emotional or physical intimacy
You're often left feeling lonely
You feel undeserving of a healthy, happy relationship
You sometimes doubt that you will ever find love that fulfills you
If you have these relationship patterns, uresolved issues from past relationships, or if you have had a childhood of family trauma and divorce that makes it difficult to have healthy relationships now as a single individual, then therapy is for you.
Let's get started.
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or contact me by email.